Shannon R. Brown

I’m at the age where grandchildren are most likely in the not too distant future. I know the thought of being called “Grandma” makes some women feel old. Not me. I’m filled with joy at the prospect. I am more than ready to move from being the “No” that motherhood requires and becoming the “Yes” that is the hallmark of grandparenthood.

In anticipation of my hoped for change in status I decided to start planning a few things and determining some guidelines. As it’s often helpful to solicit ideas from others, I thought I’d share a few of my ideas and ask you for some as well. For the kids out there, you should consider this a version of “What to Expect: Grandparent Edition.”

• Saturday morning breakfast will be eaten directly out of the ice cream container.
• Bedtime may be suspended at any time for any reason.
• Jumping on the bed is encouraged.
• There is never a bad time for a new toy.
• Totally Chocolate Dinner constitutes a viable meal option.
• Pajamas are acceptable daywear, regardless of the day’s plans.
• Mismatched socks are preferable.
• You can never have too many stuffed animals.
• Baths filled with toys are to be expected.
• Nap? Only if I feel like taking one.
• Mud puddles are for stomping in.
• Rarely is there a difference between a want and a need.
• Payment for household chores done at Grandma’s is to be expected.
• Overpayment for tasks is also to be expected.
• Everyday is a good day to bake cookies.

I reserve the right to amend this list at any time. In fact, I’m hoping y’all have some suggestions for additions. I figure if I managed to raise kids to adulthood, I’ve earned the right to start saying “Yes.” And so have you.